Don't think you can always help people. If they want your help -if they are open to your ideas and advice, they will ask for it, and only then will you actually have any effect on them.
Don't barge into people's privacy to give them your help, it is their pain, their heart and mind, their home and their feelings. You don't know the whole story; you, quite honestly, don't know how to help them.
There is nothing you can do until you are invited to do something. They probably don't and won't need your help.
Until they do, they will find a way; they are strong. They need their own pace, their own space; it's not your life, it's theirs. Don't think you have the permission to try to change it.
Don't barge into people's privacy to give them your help, it is their pain, their heart and mind, their home and their feelings. You don't know the whole story; you, quite honestly, don't know how to help them.
There is nothing you can do until you are invited to do something. They probably don't and won't need your help.
Until they do, they will find a way; they are strong. They need their own pace, their own space; it's not your life, it's theirs. Don't think you have the permission to try to change it.
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